Robert J. Kirby, a cherished son, brother, uncle, and friend, passed away peacefully on February 25, 2025, in Boston, MA, at the age of 75. Born on October 16, 1949, in Malden, MA, to the late Joseph and Estelle (Dziob) Kirby, Robert, affectionately known as Bobby, lived a life marked by laughter, friendship, and a love for the simple pleasures.

A proud graduate of Melrose High School's Class of 1968, Bobby carried the spirit of his youth throughout his life. He was a man of many talents and interests, with a career that showcased his skill and dedication. As a Past Grand Knight of the Knights of Columbus in Melrose, he demonstrated his commitment to service and community. His work as a plumber was not just a job but a testament to his handiness and ability to solve problems with a smile.

Bobby's love for life was evident in his hobbies and interests. An avid golfer, he could often be found on the greens, enjoying the game and the company of friends. His passion for cars was well-known, with a new vehicle gracing his driveway every few years, each one a symbol of his appreciation for fine craftsmanship. The Diamondhead Restaurant held many memories of enjoyable weekend nights, filled with laughter and good food.

Travel was another of Bobby's joys, with many trips to Salem for authentic Polish cuisine, reflecting his love for exploration and cultural experiences. His friendly nature made him a beloved figure on every journey and in every gathering.

Family was the cornerstone of Bobby's life. He was the loving brother of Linda Kane, and a cherished uncle to nephew Michael Kane and his wife Dianna, and niece Jennifer Morris and her husband William. His role as a great-uncle to Hannah Morris and Brenna Kane was one he embraced with joy and pride and great nephew Colin Morris Bobby's circle of love extended to his wonderful friends, including Richard Ward, Daniel O'Neill, Rob Harlow, Richard "Ozzie" Walsh, Rich Goodhue, Ed Hanlon and the Welden Family, who all shared in the journey of his life.

Those who knew Bobby would describe him as handy, funny, and friendly. His ability to light up a room with his humor and warmth was unmatched. He had a knack for making everyone feel at home, and his presence was a source of comfort and joy to those around him.

As Mark Twain once said, "The secret of getting ahead is getting started." Bobby embodied this spirit, always ready to lend a hand, embark on a new adventure, or simply enjoy the moment. His proactive approach to life, combined with his affable nature, made him a beloved figure in his community and beyond.

Robert J. Kirby's legacy is one of love, laughter, and the enduring bonds of family and friendship. He will be deeply missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him, but his spirit will continue to inspire and guide us. As we say farewell to Bobby, we celebrate a life well-lived and cherish the memories that will forever remain in our hearts.

Visitation will be held on Tuesday, March 4, 2025 from 9:00 AM - 10:30 AM in the Gately Funeral Home, 79 W. Foster Street, Melrose, MA, 02176, A Mass of Christian Burial will follow the visitation at 11:00 AM in St. Mary's Church, Herbert Street, Melrose. Interment will follow in Wyoming Cemetery, Melrose. Family & Friend's respectfully invited to attend.

In Lieu of flowers donations may be made in Bobby's memory to the Joslin Diabetes Center, 1 Joslin Pl, Boston, MA 02215 or visit their website joslin. org