Valerie M. Shea passed away peacefully at home on the morning on December 31,
2018.
Valerie was born in MA, January 12, 1929, to Mary (McIssac) and Robert Edgar (Lt.
Colonel retired US Army). She grew up in Boston attending a Catholic grammar school
and graduated from St. Patricks High School in Roslindale. She loved to reminisce of
her times growing up in Boston, skating at the Public Garden with her sister, riding the
swan boats, going to dances or enjoying Revere Beach in the summer with friends.
Valerie made many life long friends from both the old "West End" and North End of
Boston.
She met her husband, Donald Shea at a dance, but their affection would have to wait
until Don spent a summer in Canada playing for the Dodgers farm team. They were
married on November 29, 1952, at St. Joseph's church in Boston. They resided in
Melrose for many years. Valerie was married for 58 years until Don's death in 2010.
Together they had four children, Judith, Sandra, James and Joanne. She dedicated her
life to her children and her husband, her church and various charities, in particular
Children's International and Operation Smile. She endeavored to provided comfort and
love to her sister Virginia's seven children, who had lost their mother when they were
very young.
Valerie loved spending time at their cottage on Cape Cod, and she cherished times
spent with her grandchildren, nieces and nephews. She also enjoyed trips to Europe
and even a trip to Singapore with her late husband and brother. She is proceeded in
death by her beloved son James in 2009, husband Donald in 2010, and her sister
Virginia and brother Lawrence.
She is survived by her children and spouses, Judith and Joseph Flynn, Sandra and Alan
Bednowitz, Wendy Shea, Joanne and John Morton as well as her seven cherished
grandchildren, Sarah and Jason Bednowitz, Zachary and Olivia Shea, Hannah, Will
and Chatham Morton and nieces and nephews.
Visitation will be held at the Gately Funeral Home, 79 W. Foster St. Melrose on Friday, January 4, 2019 from 4:00-8:00PM. Funeral procession from the Gately Funeral Home on Saturday Morning January 5th at 9:00AM, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at St. Mary's Church, 9 Herbert St. Melrose at 10:00AM. Burial at St. Joseph Cemetery in West Roxbury. Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend. In lieu of flowers you may make a charitable donation in honor of Valerie to either: Children's International at www.children.org or Operation Smile at operationsmile.org. To send a message of condolence please visit www.gatelyfh.com